This article is about overcoming difficult times and finding your so wanted girlfriend. It may possibly happen that for months, if not years, you might be in a really bad streak with women . Long time without sex or a girlfriend can be terrible and could give a serious blow to your self-esteem. It may happen that you might start blaming yourself as a failure and perhaps you might even find uncomfortable going out and socializing with other people. This happens to many men all the time and everyone can get through . You just need commitment, belief and a good deal of hard work. So, let’s break up where you should focus on and the reasons for your failure. If you think you are fine in one of these points, jump to the next one. You don’t meet women If you just don’t meet women, the logic is that you will find it hard to land a girlfriend. Just think about it – How many new girls did you meet during the last month? Your chances finding a partner are proportional to your answer. The more w...

For some it may be an agonizing thing, but divorce doesn't seem to have the same effect on all. A new study has suggested that divorced single men pay more attention to their bodies to try to win a new mate. Shay Laren Women who divorce are likely to become less fit, as are men who remarry after a divorce, researchers say, but it's a different story for divorced men. Married men are more likely to let themselves go as they no longer need to compete for a partner. The latest study of 9,000 men and women was by scientists at the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm over eight years. "There was a significant increase in fitness in men who divorced but a tendency towards a decrease in women who divorced," the Daily Express quoted researchers as saying. "Single men have the pressure of keeping fit to increase their attractiveness and find a partner." Follow us on Twitter for more stories

Imagine a situation like this: you are in the club, in a bar or maybe in the street. There you see the woman you want, lightning strikes and you are dying to speak with her. What should you do? The answer lies in the Pick Up Artists ’ 3 Second Rule. If there’s only one thing I could take from the PUAs, it is that one rule. It is the ultimate and wisest thing they ever invented. The concept is simple: approach the girl you want in less than three seconds after you saw her . That is – do it immediately, without hesitation. Just go for it! This is GREAT and it’s what all men who want to get better at approaching should do. Let me explain you why. By immediately approaching you don’t leave time for your brain to start thinking up excuses, getting yourself nervous and making the situation odd. It’s a matter of intent and manhood – girls just feel it. They know if you were gathering strength to approach her or you just did it spontaneously. And the latter proves to be much more successful! ...

Shannon Elizabeth Women look at feminism as a way of being equal to men – be it in politics or at work, but two authors are of the opinion that feminism has all but destroyed modern love lives. The new dating and relationship guide is called "The Man Whisperer: A Gentle, Results Orientated Approach to Communication." "While modern women have been conditioned to 'act like men' in the office in order to climb the corporate ranks and to get ahead, unfortunately women have taken this same masculine attitude with them into their love life," Fox News quoted author Donna Sozio as telling Pop Tarts. "When it comes to love, romance, attraction and chemistry – men don't fall in love with a woman because she is an equal. Men fall in love with women who are their compliment: feminine, sexually available, loving and appreciative," she added. Co-author Samantha Brett offers her views on why men often do the dirty on their successful, gorgeous wives with ...

A girl who is interested in you might show it through two possible ways. First, she will give you subtle hints that she is becoming increasingly attracted to you. She’ll smile at what you say, she’ll try to keep the conversation going and maybe she’ll even touch you. The second way is much harder to read – it’s about these little things she does unconsciously when she is becoming more and more attracted to you . Following is a list of all those things women do that fall into those two criteria. I compiled it through my personal experiences and also coupled it with some great material I have found in the Internet. A girl is interested in you when… • She laughs while talking to you • When comes back after going to the bathroom • When sitting next to you her leg touches yours • She asks if you have a girlfriend • She avoids mentioning her boyfriend • She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking • She seats with her legs opened • She giggles • She introduces you to friends • She bu...

Lindsay Wagner Bored of the same routine that you and your partner follow in the bedroom? Here are some spicy ideas that you can indulge in to keep your sex life rocking. Role Play: If it turns him/her on, on the screen, imagine how much more effective it will be in real life. Think up which is your partner's favourite movie love scene and surprise them by recreating it in your bedroom. You don't necessarily have to get each and every detail right, instead work on your own look. Hands-Free: It's quite amazing how a simple touch can indeed arouse your partner. But instead of using your hands, like you always do, try to arouse him/her by using some other body part. Tell your partner it's a hands-free night and be as innovative as you can, you'll be surprised at how much he/she will love it. Talk the deed : There's a reason why phone sex is so popular, words can indeed be an instant turn on. Ask your partner what s/he's wearing and describe, as sexily as you ca...

This is hands down the ultimate value riser technique . Read through! “He must have something!” That’s exactly what all women start thinking once they see a man, attractive or not, who is hanging around with this really good looking girl. They’ll scan him through and think about all those qualities he could have , and which are the secrets that made him get such a gorgeous looking lady. They will look into which could be his charm and what’s so special in him that one amazing woman is spending her time with him. Be that man and in the eyes of all those other women you’ll be a winner and nothing else. This is exactly why all men should find the way to have one or two very attractive women friends , even if they are just that – only friends. The idea is to have a good feeling with them, enough to go out together once a while. They could be some ex classmates, friends in common and so on, but always with a friendship link which you could use as an outstanding weapon to go and seduce other...

Vanessa Azevedo "Do I have a perfect sex partner? If not, how can I get one?' Indeed a million dollar question that hovers in the minds of most couples! Though it might be hard to find an absolute sexually compatible partner, but most couples don't even know the traits that they or their better half should posses to be a perfect sex partner. Having an outstanding sex partner takes a huge burden off an individual's mind. It allows them concentrate more on the act, instead of thinking too much about whether they're making love to the right person or not. When it comes to a perfect sex partner, attributes like height, weight, age, behaviour, choices etc take a backseat. What matters is that he/she suits you and shares an amazing chemistry in the bedroom. Dr. Kirti Mishra, a clinical physiologist and a relationship expert elucidates, "The idea of a perfect sex partner varies for different individuals, but some common traits like sexually active, experimental in be...

Larissa Riquelme They say the ultimate test of a relationship is when two people take a vacation and are still together when they return. But what if the vacation isn't going so well? Here are five signs that you should look out for to warn you that your partner is about to break up with you: 1. They make a "travel friend" of the opposite sex: It's the obvious sign. When you travel as a couple, the adventures you have are meant to be experienced together, a forging of intimate memories between two people. A third wheel is a no-no at the best of times, but to invite someone along "because they're on their own" or "we're going there anyway" is asking for trouble. 2. They want to do new things on their own: It's really highlighting the fact that doing things they previously expressed no interest in is now preferable to doing things with you. If your partner wants to go off on their own to visit a flea market, then things are salvageable. B...

If you got one song you love and you think it could be a wonderful suggestion to our readers, leave it in the comments section. We’ll keep the list updated!Dani launched a campaign in Facebook asking men and women from all around the world which were their favorite romantic songs. Here are the results! If you were looking for advice and suggestions in the area, in this post you’ll have a few! I was really surprised finding a lot of great material I didn’t even know about! • Suggested by Mario: Mr Big – To be with you • Suggested by Silvia: U2 – With or without you • Suggested by Mario: Damien Rice – Volcano • Suggested by Stixx: George Michael – Careless Whisper • Suggested by Ghaith: Kenny Rodgers – Lady • Suggested by Jovan: Chris Isaak – Wicked Game • Suggested by Jojo: Chicago – I don’t want to live with you • Suggested by Noel: Hazel O’Connor – Will you • Suggested by Nikki: The Beatles – Something • Suggested by Selene: Rebecca St. James – Wait for me • Suggested by Nasheel: Morc...

Jayde Nicole It's not just girls, boys too are hitting puberty a year earlier, a new study has revealed. The research in Bulgaria showed that boys are on a faster track to puberty reaching the milestone an average year earlier than their fathers' generation. Researchers found that boys today start to develop at 12 years old, while those in the 1970s began changing when they were aged 13. The findings suggest that trends towards earlier puberty aren't limited to girls, who have already been shown to be developing sexually at increasingly younger ages. Researchers from Cedars Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles compared 6,200 healthy boys with a similar 1970s study. In the study they measured height, weight, testicular volume, penis length and circumference. "Studies done several decades ago in the same population reported that a leap forward in sexual development occurs at ages 13 through 16," the Daily Mail quoted study leader Dr Fnu Deepinder, as saying. "Ho...

Poetry is something greatly undervalued. Despite being a long shot from waning, its charm and power are today, it appears, long forgotten. Poems and the poet itself are still now though, perhaps more than ever, a mighty force when it comes to picking up women. Let me give you a direct personal example of how this is possible and they way it works. Jumping back a few years into the past, I was in this little Argentinean countryside town for our own version of the traditional Oktoberfest. I was spending the weekend there with a couple of friends, enjoying the taste of homebrewed beer and the sight of amazing women (Argentinean girls, in case you don’t know, are very good looking.) Everything was alright and I was having a great time… But then came Mariel. She was the Queen of the town and, as such, also from the festival. You might guess how beautiful she was. After all, these town and city queens are always in another league. For me, as probably with many other guys there, it was love a...

Suzy McCoppin An author has come up with a list of 10 top dating tips to guide men on what they should never say to women. David DeAngelo, author of "Double Your Dating", says there is nothing worse than making mistakes that will later be regretted and one way to avoid them is to remember the following, Bullz-Eye.com reported. First of all , a man should never ask a woman if he can kiss her, as she will only say, a man should never "ask" for a kiss. Asking her for a kiss will only make a man look like a boy, which is what a woman is not interested in, and even if she says "yes", it could mean she is just being polite, while on the inside her attraction meter will read a firm, "No". Secondly , a man should never ask a woman if he can take her out on a date sometime, as she would like to be with a man who is a leader and in control, not someone who asks her permission to hit on her. A man should confidently ask a woman out, by simply saying, "...

Not so long ago I wrote about movie characters you could imitate and learn important things from . There’s a lot you can take from them and that will make you become more attractive in the eyes of women. I wrote especially about what makes them unique and which aspect of their personality you should try to build for yourself. What I’m going to do now is to write down which are, in my opinion, the best quotes and dialogues these characters give. You don’t have to go and memorize all of these – but I’m sure that you’ll find one or a couple of quotes you’ll love to have in hand for the future. Beware of the spoilers if you haven’t watched any of the five movies. James Bond (Daniel Craig) – Casino Royale Vesper Lynd: It doesn’t bother you? Killing all those people? James Bond: Well I wouldn’t be very good at my job if it did. James Bond: Why is it that people who can’t take advice always insist on giving it? Solange: [they are kissing on the floor of his beachfront suite] You like marrie...

Do you know everything about sex? Think again for the more someone claims to know, the less they generally do know. Alicia Stanton, a board-certified OB/GYN and the author of ''Hormone Harmony,'' who specializes in treating men and women suffering hormone imbalances, has listed top nine sex-related myths and what the real scoop is about sex, desire, and making it all work, reports the Fox News. Myth: Interest in sex decreases with menopause. Reality: Many women maintain hormonal balance and interest in sex through menopause. And, pregnancy and menstruation are no longer a concern, spontaneity can reign. Also, they are typically more confident and knowledgeable about what they want, so sex has the potential to be better than ever. Myth: The only hormone important for libido is testosterone. Reality: Although testosterone is very important for libido and sexual function in men and women, other hormones play a part as well. Estrogen is actually very important for desire in...

The trick is that the preparation won’t come in the way of practicing what you are going to say, staying an hour in front of the mirror or thinking about all the possible situations that could happen. No – The preparation takes place on the field and essentially where you want to take the girl to.One good day you might just want to go for a coffee, drink or dinner with your date. Though I have a very particular view on how first dates should be , I still take girls out to bars and restaurants too. It’s not something bad. On the contrary, it will happen sooner or later. And you better be prepared! The best place to take a girl is where you stand out , where you are not one more guest. It’s a bar or restaurant where the staff breaks their heart for you to succeed and have a great time. A place where the guys in the entrance know you, where you call the waiters by name and where you are sure to make her feel excellent. Are there many places like that? Of course there are! It’s all a matte...

Claudio Colucci Wedding times also brings with it a few physiological contradictions or changes in new brides, most of which are related to emotions and mood swings. Hormonal imbalances, hypertension or depression, dietary disorders related to haphazard diet patterns are just some of the reasons that makes aromatherapy extremely important in this phase. Aromatherapy helps soothe skin inflammations especially in extra-oily skin textures or skin ruptures as seen with extra sensitive skin due to dehydration or over-dryness. Here's how aromatherapy can help overcome stress, depression and other skin-related disorders. Overstress and hypertension : One drop of lavender oil or basil oil can soothe nerves. It may be used during bathing or in diffuser, steam chamber etc. Once a week body massage with sandalwood oil-based aroma body massage oil is beneficial to relax the nerve nodes and tone up the tissues. A good Eu-DeûCologne with a drop each of sandalwood oil and lemongrass oil can help...

A very attractive woman is and feels like a star. If you don’t treat her as such, you might never even have a chance on them. Here’s a contradiction to the theory of value , because with these kinds of women you’ll be implying that their value is higher than yours. It’s not a big deal, really, because your goal here must be to have –in her eyes- a higher value than all the other men.This site, after all, is about dating beautiful women. So I guess it’s about time for me to start giving you some direct insight on that specific topic. The one most important thing you should know about the very attractive girls is that they know they are beautiful. It may be easy to think and to conclude that, but the truth is that not many men act around beautiful women as if they already knew that. If you want to have a shot with these women you need to make them feel the best, but there are ways and ways of doing so. Nice comments, a pretty message or some shout of love could always be cute, but the...

Do you prefer black underwear to red? Or pink to white? A psychologist has revealed that preference for a certain colour also reveals the kind of lover you are. Red means you're not shy but if you choose pink, you would rather let the other person take the lead and white is for willing learners, according to expert Donna Dawson. The poll found 72 per cent of women now opt for nude or flesh toned lingerie when shopping, shunning the classic whites and blacks – this fact was supported by Debenhams who report nude sales up 38 per cent increase year-on-year. "Colours at the warm end of the spectrum (red, orange, yellow), create feelings of excitement and vitality, and can actually raise our blood pressure, heartbeat and breathing rate," The Daily Mail quoted Dawson as saying. "A red bra denotes a personality that is passionate, energetic, dramatic and driven. A pink bra denotes a personality that is romantic and gentle and in need of affection. She is feminine, sensuou...

Still, I have been quite slow when revealing more about myself. No real reason for that actually, just plain laziness I guess. But well, I, Mario, am after all the mind behind most of this. People, new and old friends, are helping me out writing, with ideas, translating, promoting and in many, many other ways. But in the end it’s me putting all this together. Many of you have been reading this site for months already… So I’m sure that by now you kind of know what are my beliefs, what I think and which are my general views and strategies when it comes to dating and picking up girls. Because of that and for us to have a more personal connection , I’ll tell you some random facts about myself. A few serious things, a few funny and some others that will make you know me more! • I’m Italian, but I was born and raised in Argentina. I look Italian, eat Italian food and so on, but I speak Spanish and if when Argentina plays against Italy, I’m all for MY country! • Speaking about sports, I’m a d...

Do men like being mothered by their girlfriends? We ask around. Adriana Lima Are you one of those guys who are caught off guard by the devoted and persistent mommying from your girlfriend? Love it or loathe it, you cannot ignore it. Among the many intricacies in a relationship, the putative, protective and tender nature of women plays an important role in making or breaking a relationship. But in some cases, it crosses the fine boundaries of protectiveness into the precarious territory of possessiveness where concern or affection transforms into irksome nagging or control, barring that, who would not like tender care, love, affection and warmth? Actor Mazhar Syed who is dating actress Moulli Ganguly, has no qualms being mommied by his girlfriend. In fact, he thinks it only strengthens their relationship. "All women have an innate quality of being caring and protective and guys do like to be pampered and taken care of. It is a sign of concern and love. My girlfriend is always there...